SISSY
SISSIFIED HUSBAND
HAVING A SISSIFIED HUSBAND
Advantages of Having a Sissy Husband
1. You can have your own private slumber parties.
2. If he wears a skirt it's easy access.
3. He always envies you because he would rather be wearing what your wearing.
4. You can have a girlfriend as well as a boyfriend who doesn't mind waiting while you take your time shopping.
5. You can double your wardrobe if he's the same size as you!
6. You never have to worry about cheating on you with another woman. He IS the other woman!!
7. You always have a girlfriend to go shopping and have lunch with!!
8. He'll NEVER object to being a clothes dummy and wearing a dress while you hem it.
9. While shopping, you can test a new shades of nail polish on him and he doesn't complain or ask to see a matching lipstick.
10.He'll rarely have scratchy five o'clock shadow.
11.He'll never ask you to have a thresome with another woman as long as he can wear the lingerie.
12.He will be sympathetic about your excess body hair.
13.He won't tear your lingerie when removing it from you.
14.He won't mind waiting on you or your girlfriends, and he won't forget to curtsey.
15.If you need a slip for that new dress you bought, he happens to have the perfect one, and lets you borrow it.
16.You can switch off wearing high heels on a long shopping spree.
17.A man in a dress makes a good cook.
18.He loves to smell perfume and will give you an honest opinion.
19.You can test a new shade of lipstick on him.
20.If you purchase something for the home, it will never be too feminine.
21.At least the toilet seat will be down.
22.He is a lot easier to buy gifts for.
23.He knows just the right way to make love, takes his time and knows just what makes you tick!
24.He will understand much better that the best thing a girl can have when she feels down is new clothes.
25.If he buys you clothes, you know he sizes them right.
26.You can take him to the hair salon with you and he will sit quietly while you both get your hair done, and he will never complain. In fact he'll thank you.
27.The only time he will ever care if you wear curlers to bed is if he has to wear the oversize rollers.
28.He understands why you don't care for spending 8 hours a day in pantyhose and high heels.
29.Never complains about leaving the delicate underwear out to dry.
30.You have a girlfriend that doesn't get PMS.
31.He will not only shop with you but will pay the bill as well!
32.He knows how to handle the delicates when he does the laundry.
33.Satin and velvet are more snuggly than denim and wool.
34.He understand the need for quality cosmetics.
35.You have more excuses to go shopping, and he will even carry the bags.
36.You can borrow his jewlry, clothes and makeup.
37.He understands why you go through so many pairs of stockings.
38.He no longer expects you to get ready for a night on the town in 15 minutes or less.
39.The world needs more feminist in lipstick.
40.You can take the Cosmo quizzes together.
41.You can ask him how na outfit looks and get an intelligent response.
42.His new friends don't spend all day watching football.
43.He knows to walk slow when your wearing heels.
44.If he says, "Hon, you look nice." you know he really means it.
45.He can spot makeup smudges better than any other guy.
46.He's like having a live in cosmetologist.
47.He loves to go shopping with you and watch you try on clothes.
48.He knows how to treat a lady with care and respect.
49.He's a friend that will stick arround, and won't flake out on you or stab you in the back.
50.He loves to dress up and have long chat sessions.
51.You can have a threesome without adding another partner.
52.If you've been bi-curious you can experiment a little.
53.You know one of you will have a tissue with you when you need it.
54.Dress him up in a French Maid's Uniform and you have a house cleaner for the day.
Sissy Husband
So you're a sissy husband, and you're not sure how to tell your wife or girlfriend.
Or perhaps you're a significant other who's just found out that you are the proud owner of a sissy husband.
Communication is key. I know, that's very simplistic and doesn't always work out as we'd hope in the real world. Sissy husbands and married crossdressers have faced divorce and shame as a result of this personal trait which they cannot change: they are a sissy, and always will be.
If you've just come out of the sissy closet - or are considering doing so, and not quite sure how to do it, just remember to be as open and forthcoming as possible when discussing your sissy tendencies. Your significant other is likely to be shocked and confused - prepare a thorough answer and explanation for her, to the best of your ability to understand your own sissy tendencies. Perhaps you can gather some reading materials, so that your partner can learn about your sissification, and your desire to be feminized and submissive.
The majority of married crossdressers and sissy claim that their wives do not know about their crossdressing, and that they must keep it hidden. Sissy husbands go to great lengths to hide this most essential part of themselves: rented storage spaces, hiding places in the basement or attic, even separate apartments! And of course when the hiding becomes too stressful, the purging cycle begins...and even though the sissy husband knows deep in her heart that she will buy those clothes, wigs, shoes and cosmetics again and again, the stress of hiding often becomes too much, and those treasured girlie possessions are discarded. Needless to say, this can be expensive!
Confessing to your wife or girlfriend that you are a sissy is never going to be simple. Some married crossdressers will never reach that point, and that is okay.
But living a life of secrecy, concealing your true, full self from those who love you, and whom you love, is not too easy either. So give some thought to sharing this essential part of yourself with your loved ones - and take the responsibility of preparing the educational materials - and your own thoughts and feelings - so that you can participate in helping your significant other through your transition from secret sissy to public sissy husband.
You can't force your wife or girlfriend to accept your sissy tendencies: her background, upbringing, and her own experiences will affect how open she is to the fact that you are her sissy husband. But the more information you provide for her, and the more open you are during discussions of your sissy-ness, the more likely she will be to eventually come to accept, if not embrace, your femininity.
There are a few theories as to why women have such a difficult time accepting that their husband is a sissy. Some theorize that a woman's fear of her own lesbian tendencies may make her turn away or refuse to accept her husband's feminine side. Also, we're all brought up with very strictly defined expectations of "proper" gender roles - the husband is expected to act and dress a certain way, and the wife, another. When these roles are blurred or transposed, life can get confusing. And even the most open minded of wives is going to have preconceptions of what defines "husband" - certainly your sneaking into her panty drawer and trying on her "intimates" is not among the things she was raised to expect of a husband! But this does not mean that she can't come to accept that part of you - especially with your help in educating and enlightening her to the ways of sissy husbands.
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